Every time you talk to your wife and have an argument you are pushing her further away. Every time she gets mad at you it reinforces her decision. STOP HELPING HER.
You are doing the right thing. By going dark you are giving her fewer reasons to be mad at you. This is the best thing you can do right now.
I know the loneliness and fear. I have been dark for only a few weeks. Trust me, it gets easier.
You need to start GALing like crazy to keep your mind off of the loneliness. This will not make it go away completely, it will help.
Trust in your own reasoning. You did the right thing on the phone call and you are doing the right thing now.
Stay Strong.
Me:27 W:30 S1:3y/o S2:8m/o T:5 M:3 Bomb:5/16/12 W moved out:5/16/12
