Wow... I actually agree with Starsky on this 100%. As long as OM is a part of WAW's life, LBH should not be an active part. That's not to say that you necessarily have to be completely dark, but not an active part of their life. IMO of course.
But yet, I'm pretty sure this is what MWD teaches. At least up until the LRT and perhaps up until the after-the-LRT stage. That's why I was looking for clarification from dbmod.
Not sure if it's MWD teaching or it's just what the forum has morphed into over the years, but I'm pretty sure even the DB coaches encourage "flirting" and other forms of pursuit even with the actively-wayward. It's fine if we disagree on that; I'm just looking to get a straight answer, since this thread was started and we're all discussing this aspect right now.
