The DBing is still very much contrary to my impulses. I have something I need quick advice on. Today I spoke with WAW. This past weekend we divided out belongings and I moved her to her apt. Today she says we need to renegotiate the Dyson (vacuum). She said she needs it more because the dog she took is the long haired of the two. I pretty much gave her every other appliance in the house and asked for the Dyson. I don't need w/d, microwave, etc in my new place. I honestly don't want to make it a big fight, but I've already given her just about everything except my tools a couple of chairs and a coffee table. One of us is going to have to but a new vacuum. That's just the way it is. I offered to buy one for her, however I can't afford another Dyson at this time. I do not want to fight over pettiness. Should I just let her have it? Or should I point out that she made out quite well with the split already, and tell her I'm not parting with it?
I think she senses the changes with all of the 180s, and notices I'm trying to be more pleasant. Now I feel as though she's trying to use that against me to get what she wants. If I put up a fight, I know it will set me back a bit
