Broken, sorry you weren't able to piece this back together. But I think you are on the right track with forgiveness. There is an awful lot of anger and resentment in your communication with W...you seem to throw digs in there continually. You want her to accept her part in it, you want her to admit she was wrong....but you can't control her. Stop trying. You are clearly hurt, but you've got to let it go. Stop trying to make her see it your way, stop trying to get her to admit her wrongdoings, stop trying to make her see your pain, and stop letting her wrongs make you feel all those negative feelings. Let it go....and do it for yourself.
