I could point out loads of things but I've done that for months so I'm not wasting my energy. my mouth was literally hanging open reading that. I really wish you W was on this board, I think she needs the support.
Please for the good of the women in whatever state you're in...go to counselling and don't date for 2 years.
There's different opinions on this. Mine is that you shouldn't be close to people right away, but after 3 months or so, you should be able to "date" people who like you. I wouldn't play the "dating game", you'll never get sorted out. But if you are interacting with people who you have some mutual interests and like each other, I think it gets you past it much quicker. It really opens your mind to the possibility that there are other people out there who are good for you.
