Stumbled across this today and really made me think...
When you affirm things like, You make me mad, this situation is upsetting me, I can’t believe you are treating me this way, etc., you start playing the victim game. Take responsibility for your own thoughts, your own feelings and actions and by doing so you will no longer give your power away to forces outside yourself. When something negative wil come your way you will pause and instead of reacting you will RESPOND, to everything and everyone. You will no longer be a victim but rather a person who is aware of his/her inner strength and power.
How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. ~ Wayne Dyer
Had a great weekend in Pinehurst with friends and flying out to Atlantic City on Thursday!
W's birthday is tomorrow but she won't hear a peep out of me... I assume she is still entrenched with OM, perhaps he will get her a car for her birthday ;-). Still awaiting a draft of a petition to review... Given her "I don’t know when I will file, but if/when I do I will list your home address." statement I'm sure I will end up having to do all the legwork. Only time will tell...
Good luck to all in your respective sitch's!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
