It counter to Starsky's wife in that her parents disapprove and she has said I don't care. Our kids have said they disapprove and again she dont care. There are a few close others that have said that as well, and again she don't care. My life, my rules, and I can F it up if I want to.
Mirage, please don't misunderstand. DURING my wife's affair, she didn't care EITHER. These were things she told me AFTERWARD, when she came out of her fog.
During??? Told by her father that her mother was just "devastated over all of this," she told him "Well, tell her she's going to just have to get over it." This from a very old-fashioned Italian woman who was, really BEST FRIENDS with her mother and would talk to her on the phone probably 360 out of 365 days per year, and visit with her in-person about 3-5x/week.
And she told our daughters they needed to "learn to accept it" and to "just grow up." Nice, huh?
btw, afterward, she doesn't remember saying ANY of that stuff.
Just because your wife says she "doesn't care" right now, Mirage, doesn't mean she doesn't care. You do what YOU think is right and best, and let the chips fall where they may and that way you will be able to hold your head up high, no matter what happens.
