Cadet,

"I think you can take the right stance at the wrong time"

This is true as all MLC's are all over the place and who knows what the right answer is. Db is still the best.

At this point in time, I could have taken the right, the wrong stance or no stance and it wouldn't have mattered one way or the other to her.

I took the best stance for me and am comfortable that I didnt lose myself in the process but actually know myself better still.

It still "s@cks" some days but I can appreciate the fact that it S@cks and let it go.

It counter to Starsky's wife in that her parents disapprove and she has said I don't care. Our kids have said they disapprove and again she dont care. There are a few close others that have said that as well, and again she don't care.
My life, my rules, and I can F it up if I want to.

I have to say its not very attractive LOL.

Regards......Mirage