I think I read someone here say something like "Cue the circus music" and detaching means that you can sit back and just enjoy the show? Well, cue the circus music and the stupidity-but HURRAH this time I did not get sucked in to the drama and crap-the predictability of it all. Emailed me-no answer. Messaged me.-"Where did you go?" South. Repeat for specifity since I am stupid. "I said where did you go specifically?" Virginia. "Why did you go there?" Why not? "I am asking why! did you visit someone-that is my guess" Really? Sightseeing and research. "But you visited with someone!" Research and fun. "What about the things I asked for?" I would not know. "Where in Virginia did you go? Was that where the one picture was from?" Arlington and the lake earlier this summer. "What lake? So you were there alone or with friends?" Michigan and with friends and with a friend. 5 minute delay while he contols his temper I think. "Your many friends as I always said. (One of my many crimes from the days of the blow up was that I had friends) I was sure you went with someone to Virginia and Lake Michigan!" Rudely hang up and no posts. Ok I have to admit I am laughing about the stupidity and predictability but felt no urge to tell him to grow up, to point out that he has friends, one who he is having sex with, to fight with him while he was baiting me with the level of arrogance and stupidity, bang my head on the wall or tell him it was none of his business, and feel no urge to clarify or talk with him. What a 180 and detachment. And it seems the manic posts were just to get my attention. It worked-he got a goodbye and good riddance.
