second time newcomer, back for more

[badcompany]

So let's assume for a minute, and this is a big assumption, and a stretch, that my my wife likes me the way I am; she just doesn't want to be tied down in a marriage.

Am I supposed to just accept that and move on ?

If you've read my previous threads from years ago, my wife wanted me to sign the papers and I refused because I felt she was making a big mistake (OM)

over the past year or two she has thanked me for not signing them, saying she didn't know where her head was.

Is it selfish of me to not sign them if I feel like we can save our marriage ? Am
I being naive ?

She's 26, almost 27. She goes back and forth on many decisions she makes. Easily influenced by others opinions and suggestions.