Well I have to be fair, my husband has been working on his temper and doing much better. He and I also have been spending much more time together and that is good. It's just this past week as I said above, with those old behaviors flaring up and the trigger for all that,I believe, is seeing that OW. He will see her from time to time because they work for the same company. I wish she was somewhere else so we don't have to keep going through this.
