[quote=suppo]I have had zero contact with W for 4 days now & although it has been nice and stress free, she hasn't reached out to me either [/quote
Suppo,
No-contact isn't to elicit some sort of reaction out of your wife; it is for YOU. To help you detach, think, heal, grow. Yes, it's also meant to give your wife the opportunity to miss you, but try not to "pull up the carrots" as I call it to constantly check the temperature on that part of it. It's outside of your control, and there's nothing you can do about it. You have NO IDEA what's going on (or not going on) inside that wayward little head of hers.