Husband had affair and I believe is in MLC

[BklynMom]

Go to a Alanon meeting. There are many people at those meetings dealing with family issues. Although orginally started for friends & family of alcoholics (which you prob. have an alcoholic somewhere in your family) it is now a place where people dealing with all kinds of problems go, mental illness, abuse, etc..

Try a few meetings and see what you think. I think it would be a great place for you to meet like minded woman