And just saying.. as a woman in the age bracket...
Sometimes, I THINK... the SSM issues are about our physiology, about less estrogen and more relative testosterone, or whatever, and less parenting, more career goals. We are focused less on the relationship and more on our goals.
Like when you men were in your 35-40's and more interested in your career.
It MIGHT NOT be personal. Not that you should leave it at that... but it might not be the Puppy's charisma.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001