Aww thanks Bugsy but u know how I feel about those thingys. moving here was a way to admit the reality and I'm becoming ok with it. It kind of pushed me to face the outcome and to start thinking instead of waiting and hoping. It was like weight off my shoulder. the feelings of hopelessness and helplessness needed to stop. I'm not fully over them but working on it. The GALing is so true it really helps. Hard to grasp but I have almost mastered it and feel alot better.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden