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I know that this may be hard to hear, and it is something that I still struggle to accept, but as long as there is anger and there is sadness, and there is unhappiness then there is still love. All of these negative emotions, while not good for your relationship, are indicators that he/she still has feelings for you. It is when they stop having any kind of reaction to you at all that you should worry. Your job (and mine) is not to change how they feel but to change how we deal with our spouse and improve ourselves. Make your 180s and stick to them. This time is about you and making you into the person YOU want to be.

Very good perspective. I really needed to read this today. Thank you!

I am glad that this helped you. Like I said, it is something that I still struggle with, sometimes on a daily basis. It is not an easy thing to bear and it can be confusing at times. Just hang in there, keep your head up, and keep hope alive.