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Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD zig #2270583 08/12/12 11:27 PM
Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado D Denver_2010 Member
Denver_2010 Member D Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado	Originally Posted By: zig I will help you till you completely take over. Are you interested?????/ Yes, thank you I became accountable. I see how I have to do this now MrBond, 25, cat04, KD, Denver, Adinva, Starsky, Accuray. labug, and all of the other vets - will you help, please? sg - how should it be set up? you said "threads" as opposed to thread. in this forum or the KLA one? Any suggestions on how the structure will be set up? thanks zig I'm happy to help Zig. M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD Denver_2010 #2270584 08/12/12 11:33 PM
Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,855 KS Z zig Member
zig Member Z Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,855 KS	Thank you Denver, not just from me but all of us any thoughts on how to set up the structure? no time like the present and all that... zig me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12 "if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD zig #2270607 08/13/12 12:34 AM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,157 D dbmod Member
dbmod Member D Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,157	A thread is set up. You can start the structure there, if needed it can be moved, but it will likely be more active here. Zig, please click 'notify' anytime you want moderator help. We will jump in, or respond via Virginia. You should know moderators DO NOT have your personal contact information, only administration does. dbmod

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD dbmod #2270614 08/13/12 12:48 AM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land ~ ~ kd ~ Member
~ kd ~ Member ~ Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land	I'm here to support you zig, you know that...

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD dbmod #2270618 08/13/12 12:55 AM
Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,855 KS Z zig Member
zig Member Z Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,855 KS	Thanks dbmod about "notify" - does that get posted on the public thread also, or only to the moderator? zig me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12 "if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD ~ kd ~ #2270619 08/13/12 12:56 AM
Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,855 KS Z zig Member
zig Member Z Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,855 KS	+ a strawberry:) me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12 "if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD zig #2270637 08/13/12 01:29 AM
Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado D Denver_2010 Member
Denver_2010 Member D Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado	Originally Posted By: zig Thank you Denver, not just from me but all of us any thoughts on how to set up the structure? no time like the present and all that... zig Just use the thread the dbmod set up. IMO, any goals that you or anyone else wants to define for themselves have to based on what it is you want. Not just with your M, but what you want for yourself. They need to be short term and attainable IMO. Begin small. A wise man once told me... "how do you eat an elephant? one bite at a time" ... LOL... funny the things that stay with us. M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD Denver_2010 #2270642 08/13/12 01:32 AM
Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805 sgctxok OP Member
OP sgctxok Member Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805	Just to begin with....if it grows, I THINK it should be a forum, or could go to Staying Solution Focused. Setting goals is so at the heart at what we do, and it's extremely neglected, even by myself. You shall be queen. sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD sgctxok #2270645 08/13/12 01:33 AM
Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805 sgctxok OP Member
OP sgctxok Member Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805	Can y'all help dawnmarie? sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

Re: DB Bootcamp - zig and TBD Denver_2010 #2270648 08/13/12 01:37 AM
Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,855 KS Z zig Member
zig Member Z Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,855 KS	oh yes - thanks for the elephant visual - good one to keep at the forefront of one's mind!! and yes - i did see the thread - alot more than i expected. i feel humbly honored - i had no idea!! so i guess i will bite the bullet and go jump in tonight btw - i always thought that the bootcamp threads were to do with goal-setting anyway... how do you see the difference between this one and those? me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12 "if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"

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