It has been awhile but I am happier than ever.

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Ok -- I remember reading SOME of your old posts and I checked back.

You have to know a good deal of your vets here that care so much and so strongly...are old enough to be your parent or grandparent. Not that that should matter, but it might make a difference about the pain that is felt. Many posters feel your pain or a pain about what you are posting. It makes them relive some of the things they went through and the feelings they had when they were giving you advice to begin with and the hopes they had for you.


So you are young and have only been married 2-3 years, and things are or have fallen apart.

When you are my age .. and I'm not going to spill THAT ... but old enough to be your mom ...You may well wish your marriage worked out and later relationships didn't.


Ok, I will get to your REAL question. (I told you I was going to say a LOT)