I rarely post very personally ... but here goes. Some of it you might like and some of it you won't. I'm not posting from judgment but from my PERSONAL experience, not as a moderator. Since I'm going to go 'on and on' , it might take a couple of posts due to my computer.
I came here 2 relationships after my divorce.
I was married 10 years with 2 children. I left my marriage due to abuse, and no excuse for him, but I learned my own faults after these other two relationships.
My bottom line after all this spillage is it is unequivocably TOO SOON. And I seriously get where I think you are or might be.
And after years of moderating mostly 'on', maybe a year off....I get where your dedicated posters are coming from.
My focus is to save you pain. Next post, because my computer doesn't show much.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
