Interpretation of MWD and DR regarding infidelity

[Starsky309]

Detachment IS very important for many. Especially for stopping the desperate chase in the beginning that rings false for the partner.


But, for SOME it is just as important to re-engage and perhaps pursue.

There is NO onesizefitsall.

If your coach is suggesting that you test the waters, reconnect, etc, you can bet your coach has a great reason for that.

Detaching CAN be moreofthe same.

If you are unsure and not under the guidance of a coach..........GO THROUGH THE STEPS in DR/DB or KLA.

dbmod,

In what circumstances does Michele teach that pursuit is appropriate?

Is it ever appropriate to pursue when the wayward spouse is still in their affair?

Trying to understand, in the context of the thread title, where the limits lie.


Starsky