I would have accepted her invite.
Once again, she communicated something that she wanted you to do.
Women like to be pursued by the men they are in love with. Not smothered, pursued, affectionately and sexually.
Nothing makes a woman feel worse than being rejected when she needs affection and sex. Same for guys.
I mean, who doesn't want to be wanted and needed? Who doesn't want to feel attractive to the one they are in love with?
Women like their man to LEAD. It is very attractive to us.