Piecing - Round 1

[Denver_2010]

Damm... such nice words Starsky! What did you have in your cheerios yesterday??

Thanks man. I appreciate it. And, as always, thank you for your support for the past 19 months. I will never be able to repay you or the others.

To your question Harrier:

yes, the woman at the reunion.

tough to answer the question as to whether i considered myself married. I did. I guess I just kind of said f it. I found a brief amount of relief with that mini R with that woman. I can't deny that. But I still struggled bc, yeah, I did still consider myself married. AND, I had already spent 9 months on this board, and had put so much work into understanding what it means to be married.

After a few weeks, that feeling caused me to have to end that. I realized that i was just using it as a crutch. Something to ease the pain.

I have not told my W everything about that. She could not handle it.

I have told her that I do not keep in contact with my ex-gfs, which is true. I did unfriend them on FB a long time ago. We don't have a transparency plan in place for that either.

I think that i have a pretty good understanding of my W's perspective. I think that I have for a while.

I also recognize that her perspective is legit. I don't think that there is much chance that I could forgive her for her choices over the past 19 months if I didn't.

Hope you have fun while here in Denver!!