That mutual friend helps. She helps because she reinforces from the outside that it is not about you.

In time, the truth that needs to be known is known. In all things. It always comes out at some point, although sometimes it takes longer than we like...

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."