Mmm. One thing I forgot to mention. Our ex's may not hit bottom. They may be living the life of Riley. Know what? Mine seems to be back when I was paying attention. But I know that I'd rather live that life of integrity and truth than have to spend that energy stuffing down those feelings. The paranoia alone that it might happen to "me" isn't worth and they come back in strange ways if you don't deal with them...
Peace,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."