You have every right to feel the way that you feel, just don't get bogged down in it. I still wake up at night angry and wishing I'd said this or that to him. In the end, would it have made a difference? Nope. He wasn't listening anyway. Sometimes taking the high road, and keeping to the high road, is a biotch. I know I myself would like to light a bag of doggy doo on his front doorstep and yell FIRE.