professor.....it's difficult when you know someone is on a smear campaign against you.But remember YOUR TRUTH. If over the course of time you realize maybe he was correct about some things, this is ok. We're not perfect. It helps you put things in perspective.
Ok professor, stand back and look at that objectively. If he were to come back to you with all of his drama in tow, all the anger, depression, fights, cycling, and circular arguments, would you be making any progress in the relationship? How would it get any better if you were just going back to the same thing?
Well it wouldn't. I firmly believe that it takes two to make it or break it. If one of the two is NOT on the same page, it won't work when it comes to relationship problems as intense as MLC.
Even though the rejection we may feel when the WAS leaves us for someone else, we MUST remember the REALITY of what was going on with our relationship. And Must REMEMBER that just because they have someone else DOES NOT mean that they're not the perfect person we hoped they'd be and all because they found someone else....even if they're acting like it. They're hauling their emotional baggage right along with them and creating even more by the choices they're making now.
Be glad you're away from the drama and if you want to become the best and healthiest you can be, stay away from the relationship.
We can still care, we can still pray and we can still have hope for that other person, but we do it from afar.
