Well I have tears streaming down my face reading this. I don't have a crystal ball so i won't for a second say begin to analyse all I can say is how proud I am of you, how happy I am of you, and how lucky I feel to have seen you on this path. Look at you. Just look at you. Do you recognise that "soft person" in the mirror you first started to notice ages ago. I'm so happy you documented that. i'm so happy you had that day and that experience. I am astounded at how well you are acting. see you can advise others. not only were able to do all of that but you also did it with no intent to manipulate an outcome and walked away with no expectations. No matter what happens I am so happy for your family to have had that day and no matter what happens I truly feel you'll keep those lines of communication open. I love you Ms Zig!