That could be a good 180 to work on. It could be that while you view this attitude as pragmatic your W views it as indecisive and that could be a turn off for her. Just remember to start small.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012