My ex still drops money bombs on me. He only throws the divorce decree in my face when it comes to holiday time with the kids. I don't know if everything can be foreseen when you are going through a divorce. I wanted college included in the decree but my L wouldn't do it...I forget the reasoning.
Can't wait until our youngest, just turned 12 is out of school and then I won't have to deal with him much. We can talk like we always did so that part is good but my ex isn't much of a planner so I do get some surprises now and then.
Are your sisters kids not working? I lived at home during school so yes my parents supported me but I worked full time, paid all of my college expenses, paid my own car expenses and health insurance once I came off of my parents coverage. Tell the kid to pay it.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory