LaBug, Just reading through your thread. Thanks for letting me learn from you. I especially needed to hear "This is NOT a linear process. Newbies, take note!" I want to keep thinking that progress (what I think is progress) is some place to move forward from, not sideways or backwards. It's a splash of cold water when forward (closer to reconciliation) isn't the direction we move. I also like the depression analogy, you can't just turn off the bad feelings at the tap, you turn off all feelings. Also, Don't Poke the Bear. Lot's of good stuff.

LA, I'm glad to hear you are feeling. I hope the trend continues.


lillystillinlove
M:43 H:49
T:17 M:16
S:6
Bomb: 1/27/12 EA+ with close married family friend / ILYBINILWY
H moved out 7/27/12
H is Extremely angry, stressed and unable to forgive