Grace you are so right they do teach us. I read where a newbie wrote is DB for me and I thought I can't tell you what you will gain from working on yourself. no one can really explain it, but it's worth every single second you spend learning a new way to deal with your S, learning how to deal with yourself, taking the time to work on you instead of doing what 90% of people who get divorced do: stay bitter, rebound, or stay hurt. Really happy to hear that you're enjoying your day and your life.
