Also I do have the expectation (yes, it is an expectation) that his not filing means that there is hope. I'm now close to asking for clarification on that.
The dreaded RELATIONSHIP talk.
So let me get this straight.
He is depressed and you are giving him SPACE and so he is not moving along with the divorce. My mind reading would be that he is too depressed to do that. It is too much work and why bother.
So anyways you want to POKE him with a relationship talk to see how he reacts?
My thoughts are that maybe that is not a great idea.
Something like that.
It is too much work and why bother.
Yes, this is historically his MO in relationship matters.
I need to focus on me and what is best for me right now. (see a previous post of mine^)
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
