My advice would be to wait until after the divorce is final to start dating again. I think it is normal to want to date and find someone who makes you feel good about yourself during this time. I know I have felt that urge myself and I am one of the ones who still hopes that my M can be saved. If this old friend and new boyfriend respects you and is the person that you are meant to be with then he will understand and still be there when the divorce is final.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012
