The reason I dont correct people and tell them that I am not okay with it is because I want my H to come home. If I make him out to be a jerk it will make it harder for him to come home. I need to make it easy for the fool.
The guy I bumped into the other day. Told me it was great that I was okay with everything and I just said yeah, ahuh and then talked about my trip with my girls. He doesnt need to know my true feelings, I can talk about my true feelings here or to my Alanon friends.
A female mutual friend who my H feed his script to all last summer has recently tried to reconnect with me. I think last summer she was very confused as to what was going on, my H claimed I was crazy and unmanageable but breaking up was a mutual decision we were both okay with. Last summer she put me at arms length but now after a year of not saying anything she has reached out. In subtle ways she has told me that she knows this is about him.
Saying nothing works. Time is on our side.
Be the dignified lady of a black and white movie.
Accuray what are your initials?
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
