You found out your H was having an affair... demanded he D you... "kissed a boy" not so long ago and felt guilty about it...
And now the D papers aren't even submitted, yet you are happily dating some other guy...
And you seem to wonder why and almost appear hurt, that "a lot of people" tell you this is too soon...
Who are the "experts" you are referring to, that you specifically put the word experts, in quotes, regarding comparing relationships?
Are they professional therapists or something? Not that it matters. I'm just wondering why you are discounting them, if they are actually professional therapists.
