I think she's at least starting to see the changes I've made are more permanent than she probably believed at first...
The changes you make are for YOU not to win her back! They are for you to be the BEST YOU can be.
Originally Posted By: AlkalineThoughts
Mostly, I guess I'm in need of words of encouragement, advice, and someone to remind me that this is a marathon, not a sprint... that IF she's involved in an A (which I'm pretty sure she is, but not 100% as she's never openly admitted to such) I need to remember that this is going to be an even longer marathon, and I want someone to tell me that it's not as hopeless as it seems to be this morning
There can always be HOPE as long as YOU want to keep that alive. That is why we detach and take our love and put it away so that there is some left later after the marathon, to take out and revivie the relationship. Just have NO EXPECTATIONS, they are not the same thing.
You do not have to go DARK, however you must DETACH! That is the keystone to all of this. Going DARK may help you DETACH, but I will leave that up to YOU.
You should get off of moderation soon, KEEP POSTING.
