Sorry but I tell people I am not okay with it. I am not pretending that I am okay with it. I am done with saving H and his reputation. It's not my job to make people think he's a great guy anymore. I tell people I would do anything to save my marriage but H is not on board. Perhaps it is not DB style but I can't pretend and lie. It is not okay and I wont pretend it is. This is a huge trigger for me as well.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"