She's driving around with DS in the car. She now is having him call me and telling him what to say (I could hear in the background doing so). I'm sick to my stomach. I told her what she said attempting to get her to realize what the change SHE demanded is doing to our kids. I can't believe she is doing this to him.

I've talked to someone. Our decree says joint shared custody which means 50/50 time but isn't specific as to when. I'm told that means it's whoever picks them up from school first. This sets thecstate for lots of ugly confrontations as Ive been advised all I can do is get a police officer to accompany me to her place and request kids (she isn't compelled to surrender them to me). I'll have to di this to price I attempted to get them when it does go to court.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13