Dropped the kids off at W’s apartment. W rarely invites me to go chat on the balcony. I was a bit taken back when she made that overture. (As accuray calls it)
For once she didn’t want to have a money, logistics, kids conversation. She mentioned that she wanted to acknowledge our anniversary and she asked me how my day’s been. I am pretty sure she was alluding to it being our anniversary but I just told her I had a great time with the kids and that we had a lot of fun. She could tell I didn’t really want to just chit chat on her balcony. A couple times she said I didn’t need to come outside with her if I didn’t want to. It was a very brief encounter. Yes, it might have been a lost opportunity but I won’t try to beat myself up over it too much.
DB’ing is very hard however the one area that I would consider a real strength is that I don’t pursue.
