I could use a little advice here....

Monday is the first day of school. I texted DS the bus he will ride to come to my place (X has him but we have been swapping Mondays after school). DS responds his mom says he will be staying with her.

X calls shortly after that and after brief pleasantries WW3 breaks out. X is still adamant DS and DD will now stay with her (just cause she wants them to) and gives lame reasons, claims we agreed (never happened), etc, etc. I countered every lame reason she gave and pointed out that the first comment she made each time was about my fiance and her kids although she says they're not the reason. I related to her DS's question, What would you do if mom had a gun and wouldn't let me go with you?", emploring her to stop She continued to the point she finally was screaming at me and said something about "lawyer and psychologist" and hung up on me.

She called me back shortly after (well established behavior pattern of hers) but I didn't answer since she hung up on me and I'm not playing her games. She later texted the kids were afraid we would hurt each other and ended, "answer your phone" (DS had tried to call me but I was away from phone). I did return HIS call but haven't spoken to her since.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13