Zig, Serenity, you truly do have the gentlest 2 x 4's which I deserve.
Originally Posted By: zig
you are expecting HER to overcome her fears - you need to set the example - not by saying anything, but by working on yourself. the results will shine out of you - and everyone will see it.
Spot on but it's so damn hard. It was all I could do to turn my phone off just now without sending just something to say I'm still here. And that's bad. I realised that. She knows all of that and much more. So enough! No more.
Serenity. You need to come and belt me one? I'll pick you up at the airport. It'll be worth it I know.