Keep moving forward and taking care of yourself and your kids. You have plenty to keep you busy with 4 kids and dont have time to worry yourself with what he is doing.
Ultimitely he is the one missing out on time with your beautiful family.
By the way, it is soooo typical for a man to call a woman crazy to justify their bad behavior - its almost pathetic but you have to remember your H is sick right now.
Hang in there. Be the strongest, bravest mom you can be for your kids!!
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13