RH, I'm really glad to hear you are doing better. Keep plowing ahead!
LB, I don't plan on contacting my W at all unless something important comes up. I will attempt to talk with the boys every day, time and availability permitting.
Originally Posted By: Starsky309
Your wife is going to likely pursue you during your time away. My advice would be to stay dim (not dark), and to keep it about the kids. If she tries to start R texts, e-mails or phone calls, I would advise a "We can talk about this when I'm back. Right now I'm trying to focus on the job assignment, and getting to know 2thepoint again, and figure out what he wants out of the rest of his life." (or something similar).
Starsky, thanks for the advice. I'll keep it in mind should there be any reason for us to talk. We haven't had a R discussion in many many months and I am not expecting any now. Frankly, I'd be very surprised if that were to happen. I've been pretty dim for awhile now and don't plan on making any changes.
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