Taking TOO long to rebuild this part of your relationship ALSO is "risky." In fact, I think it's more risky than trying to do it now, considering your two's history.
Starsky [/quote]
Starsky,
I don't have faith yet that physical intimacy can be attained. I have faith that the R can manage the social aspects of being a couple, and develop friendships. This prompts me to continue to invest in the M. I'm getting used to being a couple in a dance community. This involves people getting to know us well. We've never been part of a community that we both valued, as individuals, and as a couple. This is new territory for us. When our M wasn't going well, we weren't out in the world as a couple very much, and developed R's on an individual basis to compensate.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
