Divorced. My fault, and cant move forward

[Mrs D]

OK - here is a question... What if my ExH is doing to me the same thing I am trying to do with him - the no contact, the GAL, etc? I mean, what if he stepped back and said this is what I going to do - Im going to "show my back", and hopefully she comes back? Although he does have what he said last night is not his GF... Maybe he really is doing this hoping I get my life together so we can be together again?