Starsky - can I ask you something? Some advice?

There's a chance (good one) that the W will be here on Monday to go to her evening Netball.

She asked (very nicely) for a R50 (about $5) airtime.
I did it for her. Not doing it would have been very hurtful to me and would truly smack of "same thing".

I know she's going to be short of underwear.
Do you think I'd be doing the wrong thing by getting a small gift card for her to go and spend on herself?

This no contact thing is killing me and I'd have to imagine my W thinking "what a £>%#|"

I'm so should I / shouldn't I :-(((((

Mac