Originally Posted By: suppo
Part of me wants to just give up and let her go her own way.


Suppo, here is a key clue:

"Letting go" (also called "setting free") does not equal "giving up."

Here's a thread that explains it better:

"Setting Them Free"

You can also google "push/pull relationship dynamic." The more you pursue and smother, the more your wife pulls away.

What did YOU do, when she pulled away from YOU? Learn from that.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)