Hi Flier Cadet! So I am the other woman? How funny! I would never have put up with that crap from him if I were her. He would have partied with me and enjoyed the city with me or I would have been out of there and doing it myself. And likely that computer would have been broken or disabled covertly. But this is what I mean about her being a weak little girl. WHo in their right mind wants to hear about another woman for hours and watch the man tied up in conversations with her daily?

The OW has choices to stop. They choose not too. What are you choosing?
Am I the OW here with choices to stop or is she? Or perhaps we both are? And with NC did I choose to stop enabling the crap?

I am unfamilar with the term "clinging boomerang" but if this is good, then GREAT!! Is the manic behavior his form of panicing then? Wonderful-said with sarcasm- as I am really enjoying that. When he left Monday, he told me twice to call him about going to the museum and to his visiting again. I told him both times that he would have to contact me as I did not know his schedule, but that I was planning to go to the museum with or without him so he would have to let me know when he was free and see if the times matched up, and same for visiting again-let me know your schedule and we will see. If he does not call, I will go anyhow so no problem, and the visit-well his choice. I am ok either way, actually simpler if he does not since I am back to not sleeping well.

MLC gets worse than this? Wonderful-again sarcasm. No enabling is my plan so I have not answered the email about the cell phone cancellation or the receipt from the flight as with a bit of effort he can do both on his own. Be a big boy.

So he is trying to avoid the dark pit I take it with the manic behavior and the discussions with the little girl. Sort of figured that when I sensed him getting restless the day before he left, and being so happy to leave until I also seemed so happy about him leaving. Then he was puzzled and grumpy and began following me around the house asking questions about my clothes and my belly dancing class.

So I just keep doing what I have been doing then? Oh, and work harder on letting him go-what else should I do to do that?