She didn't really have any complaints when she told me dbmod... She told me she felt it was silly that she was feeling like this because of how much I support her, how much love I give her and how much I do around the house.

However the last three years the complaints have ranged from, too clingy, loss of independence, being set in a routine rut, pressuring her to have sex (she has slowly lost her sex appetite over the past 4 years).

I have gone over things a million times in my head. Overanalysing IMO.

She told me yesterday she wants to go on a yoga retreat for 5 days. This is MUCH better to me than the "let's live in seperate houses for a week" I got last week. In this past week though I have done several 180's including limiting physical contact, saying I love you back but not initiating it, and GAL. I think she has noticed and while the contact is still brief and the affection is stil non existing I feel much calm in knowing that she has been thinking about "us" in the future.

Time for camping!

Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
Band-aid Jan 11'
ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12