(Do you think I'm stepping out of bounds on the family together issue since my S may be hurt by it or it hurting the family that has no fault in this matter?) No more answering any text messages from her unless it has to do with our son. Like I said I will still be kind I think I just need to be less available.
I think you lay out some good things here, those are questions YOU must decide. You must make the best decsions for YOU. You must be the BEST father you can be. Sometimes those too things may clash and you must decide what is the most important. I will not do it for you.
Sometimes you can not protect your children from the real world and they must learn it as part of growing up.
As long as you have unconditional love you will be fine. Sometimes in regards to your wife love must be tough!
